Wedding muhurat: how auspicious dates are chosen

Once two families agree, the next question is usually: "When is a good muhurat?" Here's how the date is traditionally chosen, so you can have an informed conversation with your family priest.

What goes into a muhurat

A priest looks at the panchang (Hindu almanac) for each possible date:

• Tithi: the lunar day
• Nakshatra: the Moon's star for that day
• Yoga and karana: further divisions of the day
• Vaar: the weekday

Certain nakshatras such as Rohini, Mrigashira, Magha, Uttara Phalguni, Hasta, Swati, Anuradha, Mula, Uttara Ashadha, Uttara Bhadrapada and Revati are commonly considered good for marriage, though lists vary between traditions.

The couple's details

Many priests also consider the bride's and groom's moon signs and nakshatras, so the "best" dates differ from couple to couple. That's why a general list of dates online is only a starting point.

Periods many families avoid

Traditions differ, but many families avoid weddings during:

• Kharmas (when the Sun is in Sagittarius or Pisces)
• Periods when Jupiter or Venus is combust (close to the Sun)
• Chaturmas in some communities

Practical planning

Shortlist two or three acceptable muhurats, then check venue availability, travel for elders and the season. A muhurat that works for the whole family is a good muhurat.